5 Common Myths About Purpose That Are Keeping You Stuck

If you’ve ever tried to “figure out your purpose” and felt frustrated, you’re not alone. The problem might not be you. It might be the myths you’ve been told about purpose.

After years of working with leaders, teams, and individuals, I’ve seen the same misconceptions pop up again and again. And when you believe them, they can keep you spinning in circles instead of moving forward.

Here are 5 of the most common myths — and the truth that will set you free:

Myth 1: Your purpose is the same as your job.

Truth: Your purpose is bigger than your role. Jobs can change. Titles can disappear. Seasons can shift. When your “why” is tied to something that temporary it’s fragile. Your true purpose is a foundation that holds no matter what changes.

Myth 2: You should know it by now.

Truth: Purpose isn’t on a timer. Some people find clarity early. Others uncover it later in life. But the best time to start is today!

Myth 3: It’s all about you.

Truth: A strong purpose is others-focused. When it’s only about your personal success or comfort, it won’t have the staying power you need when life gets tough.

Myth 4: It has to be perfect before you start.

Truth: Purpose is refined in motion. You don’t have to get it “exact” before you live it out. Start with what you know now and let it grow with you.

Myth 5: It will make life easy.

Truth: Purpose won’t make life easy — but it will make it meaningful.The storms still come. But a clear purpose helps you stand through them with direction and hope.

If any of these myths sound familiar, don’t be discouraged. You’re not starting from zero — you’re just clearing away the fog so you can see what’s already possible for you.

In The Strength of Purpose, I walk you through a step-by-step process to uncover and live your purpose — without falling for the myths that keep so many people stuck.

Your purpose is too important to let a false belief hold it hostage.